I’ve been covering Hoda Kotb for the past 14 years, ever since the fourth hour of the Today show was first taking off. She and Kathie Lee Gifford were hitting their stride, drinking wine in the morning and sharing an incredible chemistry on-air. Since then, I’ve done six cover stories with her and countless more interviews. When we photographed her with her new baby Haley in 2017, I was expecting my twins—we both sat on the guest bed of her Upper West Side apartment for that interview, because a giant stuffed gorilla gifted by Andy Cohen was taking up a large portion of the seating area. When Hoda replaced Matt Lauer as Today coanchor in 2018, she was on the cover alongside Savannah Guthrie. She was on there again when she adopted baby Hope in 2019 and graced the cover of our Family issue with both girls in 2022. Then last fall she appeared on the cover to share some shocking news: She was leaving Today.
MAILBAG I am appalled by your article “Expelled” [about kids expelled from preschool]. This was the most one-sided piece of journalism I have ever seen. Have you ever been a teacher? I bet not. And I am pretty sure you have no children. These girls obviously had discipline problems, and at that age it probably started at home. Every child deserves to be able to have an environment for learning, and two children that disrupt a class need to be dealt with and then asked to leave if it doesn’t get better. —KM Smith Hi there, I read your letter with great interest. We had a tremendously passionate response to this story, but I want to make sure you know it was inspired by a new statistic that showed that preschoolers were being expelled in record numbers. I asked the team to see if they could tell the story through real people (the classic People way of capturing an issue in a human way), and I felt they achieved that, although many readers did feel that the parents were to blame. I think the stat seems to indicate a huge cultural shift in parenting. And just FYI, I have three kids. Please keep sharing your honest feedback. —C.T.
Our readers love Hoda—who doesn’t?—and so when we got the opportunity to shoot her with her daughters again, we took it. Driving to her house, I hadn’t prepared questions: I figured after 14 years of interviews, we’d just talk. What have you been up to lately? How are your kids? But this turned out to be our most intimate interview yet. Hoda shared that she does in fact miss Today, that ( just like me, and plenty of other moms) she can lose her cool sometimes—and that there was more to the story when she decided to leave Today: Hope, 6, has been dealing with the rigorous ongoing care required after being diagnosed with type 1 diabetes. I’m so grateful to Hoda for the trust she placed in People by sharing this, and I think readers will be inspired by her positive outlook and doting attention to her girls.
You can take an inside look at the making of the cover story (including behind-the-scenes footage of the shoot and interview) on People’s new short-form reality show The Fourth Wall, which airs exclusively on the People app.
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BRIAN DOBEN