My 14-year-old rookie caddie, about to enter her freshman year at Aurora’s William Smith High School, had given me pep talks, inquired about my career and asked if I had a favorite animal over the course of a delightful round at CommonGround. So when I finally asked Andrea Melero what’s resonated most from caddie training, perhaps I should not have been surprised at her answer.
“The principle I have been thinking about a lot is ‘Ride for the Brand’ and how caddying is structured,“ she said. “It’s not just what you wear, but it’s also your attitude and how you manage things.”
“Ride for the Brand” ranks seventh among the 10 Principles to Live By, as spelled out in Cowboy Ethics, the popular book James P. Owen wrote after a 35-year career on Wall Street.
Owen, who is today inspiring older adults and super agers to embrace fitness, turned Cowboy Ethics into a program for people of all ages and walks of life, and the Boys and Girls Clubs of Wyoming adapted its 10 Principles to Live By for an elementary school curriculum the CGA then incorporated.
“They do a whole training and lesson plan on this,” said CGA Director of Caddie Development Emily Olson, who learned of the program from a volunteer. “This is probably the eighth year we’ve had the Code of the West incorporated into our leadership classes.”
Olson summarized the elements of the “Code,” a more generic and inclusionary term than “Cowboy” ethics, as they apply to middle and high school caddies. But golfers, too, can extrapolate meaning.
For our round at CommonGround, we were joined by Kayla Kerns, the CGA’s social media and video manager. Kayla entered the caddie program in Wisconsin and was awarded an Evans Scholarship. “We had nothing like this,” she said of the Code of the West principles. “I caddied at a country club in Wisconsin and we were on our own, so I love the leadership aspect here.”
Kayla had her experienced caddie, Jaxon Grunewald, 16 and soon to be a senior at George Washington High, carry her stand bag, while the rest of us had our caddies push our bags on carts. Toward the end of the day, having heard my caddie’s focus in the Code, I asked the rest about their favorite of the 10 principles.
Anayeli “Anna” Perez Aguilar-Lisbeth, 15 and entering her sophomore year at William Smith, chose Live Each Day With Courage: “I got picked on when I was little, because of my height and I seemed younger than everyone else. So I’d always switch schools or tell my mom I didn’t want to be in school, which I shouldn’t have. If I was like that today, I would miss out on good opportunities for free classes of college at my school. My mom got me into sports and helped me feel better about myself.”
Sarahi Zamarron, 15, a second-summer caddie heading into her junior year at Holy Family HS, was still kicking herself for not finishing her previous loop because she started throwing up on the fifth hole. “I was upset with myself because I believe Always Finish What You Start,” she said. “I think it’s so important to remember not to quit, especially if the first time something doesn’t work out. You could just try it again until you succeed.”
“Always Finish What You Start applies the most to this job,” agreed Kayla’s caddie, Jaxon, who is in his third summer at CommonGround. “You can pick up loops and if you cancel it totally lets down your golfer and hurts your reputation. My first year, I cancelled a few loops. But the (Caddie Now) app will let you know you’re about to let down your golfer. So it reminds you about the Code of the West and the things you should abide by.”
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Journalist Susan Fornoff does not live on a golf course, but she has written about golf for publications including the San Francisco Chronicle, ColoradoBiz Magazine and her own GottaGoGolf.com. She belongs to the Overland and Links at Highlands Ranch ladies’ clubs and ghost-writes as “Molly McMulligan,” the CGA’s on-course consultant on golf for fun. Email her at mollymcmulligan@gmail.com.