Tom and Alice Wohlgemuth committed to a life together on
June 19, 1971. Since their wedding day, the Wohlgemuths have been inseparable.
They do everything together.
In 1975, the couple lived just outside of St. Louis. Tom was
in the restaurant business and worked many nights. He consistently had a local
band called “The Par 3” come and play at his restaurant. All three members loved
“We became very good friends with the drummer and his wife, and
they invited us to go on a vacation with them to Florida,” Alice said. “So, he
taught Tom how to play golf so they could play on our trip.”
Tom quickly fell in love with the game. He soon was spending
all his off-hours playing golf, and Alice was not going to be left out of the
“I told him, I am already a restaurant widow, and I will not
become a golf widow,” Alice said. “So I found an instructor and took lessons. Thus,
our golfing career started.”
Since then, Tom and Alice have played countless rounds
together. They have traveled throughout the country on golf vacations and
raised their two kids to love the game, as well. In the mid-1990s, both
underwent joint replacement surgeries. Despite slowing down as players, the
Wohlgemuths found a new way to stay involved.
“With my hip issue, I started to think about the time that I
wouldn’t be able to play,” Tom said. “So I thought doing Rules would be the
best way to stay in the game and be associated with it. I went to Rules school
in Nashville and started getting involved with the Metropolitan Amateur Golf
Association of St. Louis. Alice and I do everything together, so the following
year she came to Rules school and got started in it also.”
Through the years, Tom and Alice have volunteered as Rules
officials for three different amateur golf associations (Metropolitan Amateur
Golf Association, Arizona Golf Association and the Texas Golf Association).
They have worked with different tournament officials, players and golf courses.
They have seen the game they love grow and develop together.
“It’s been a very rewarding experience for both of us,”
Alice said. “We get to go together and we have a great time doing it. I find being
a Rules official is a very honorable job and that you are responsible to help
Tom and Alice share the same mindset when it comes to the
role of a Rules official. They want to protect the integrity of the game while
making sure the players are the top priority. They don’t hesitate to seek help
over the radio on a Ruling and they cherish the fellowship and camaraderie.
“The majority of people in golf are very friendly,” Tom
said. “They’re so accepting of other people and we have built many friendships
along the way.”
Today, Tom and Alice continue to volunteer with various golf
associations across the country. They still play golf together, travel together
and even ride a tandem bicycle together. Their dedication to each other and the
game of golf has not gone unrecognized.
“I was lucky enough to learn from them during my internship
with the Metropolitan Amateur Golf Association of St. Louis,” TGA Tournament
Director Ian Davis said. “Tom and Alice showed me what it means to be
passionate about the Rules of Golf and the game as a whole.”
The TGA extends its sincere appreciation to Tom and Alice
for their efforts in making our championships a success. The work and
dedication from all our volunteers allows the TGA to grow and continue to
support the game we all love.
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